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The Ultimate Guide to Booking Butlers with Bums for Your Hen Party

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by The Hen Fairy

Everything you need to know about booking the UK's premier buff butler service. From what they do to how to book, we cover it all in this 1500-word guide.

When it comes to planning an unforgettable hen party, few things bring as much laughter, excitement, and "eye candy" as a professional buff butler. Specifically, Butlers with Bums has established itself as the UK's leading provider of charming, semi-clad servers who add a touch of cheekiness to any celebration. Whether you're hosting a private party at a rental house or looking for a way to liven up a cocktail session, here is your definitive guide to the Butlers with Bums experience.

What Exactly is a Buff Butler?

A buff butler is a professional male server who arrives at your event wearing a specific, cheeky uniform: usually just a collar, bowtie, cuffs, and a very short apron that leaves little to the imagination at the back. Hence the name, "Butlers with Bums"!

These men are not strippers. They are professional hosts whose primary role is to serve your group with charm and charisma. Their duties include:

  • Greeting guests as they arrive with a glass of fizz
  • Serving drinks and canapés throughout the session
  • Mixing cocktails (if ingredients are provided)
  • Hosting hen party games and icebreakers
  • Posing for photos with the bride and the squad
  • Generally being the perfect, attentive host while looking fantastic

Why Choose Butlers with Bums?

Butlers with Bums isn't just about the aesthetic; it's about the service. They pride themselves on hiring men who are not only physically fit but also have the personality to match. A great butler needs to be able to read the room—knowing when to be cheeky and when to be more of a sophisticated server.

They cover the entire UK, from Brighton to Edinburgh, ensuring that no matter where you've chosen for your hen do, you can have a butler on hand. Their reputation for reliability and professionalism makes them a top choice for bridesmaids who want to ensure the entertainment is high-quality and safe.

Planning the Perfect Butler Session

To get the most out of your Butlers with Bums experience, a bit of planning goes a long way. Here are the key factors to consider:

1. The Timing

Most groups book a butler for 2 or 3 hours. The first hour is perfect for arrivals and icebreakers. The second hour is great for games and more intensive drink service. If you're planning a full dinner party, a 3-hour booking ensures they are there from the first drink through to the end of the meal.

2. The Venue

Butlers with Bums primarily operate in private venues. This includes rental holiday homes, apartments, or private function rooms in hotels. Most public bars or restaurants won't allow semi-clad servers, so if you're planning this activity, make sure your accommodation is suitable. Always check with your host or venue manager first to avoid any awkward surprises!

3. The Guests

While buff butlers are a hen party staple, consider your guest list. If you have the bride's grandmother or more conservative relatives attending, think about how they'll react. Generally, the butlers are so professional and charming that even the most skeptical guests end up having a great time, but it's always good to gauge the vibe.

Top Activities to Do with Your Butler

Don't just have him stand in the corner! Here are ways to integrate your butler into the party:

The Cocktail Masterclass: If you've booked a DIY cocktail session at your house, have the butler assist. He can help shake the drinks, hand out ingredients, and of course, be the "taster" for the group's creations.

Hen Party Games: Butlers with Bums are experts at hosting classic games. Whether it's "Mr and Mrs," scavenger hunts, or "Toilet Paper Wedding Dress," having a cheeky butler as the referee or judge adds an extra layer of fun.

Life Drawing: One of the most popular combinations is a butler who also serves as a life drawing model. Life drawing sessions are a fantastic way to break the ice, and having a professional model ensures everyone stays focused (mostly) on their art.

Booking Tips and Etiquette

Booking a butler through Butlers with Bums is straightforward, but keep these tips in mind:

  • Book Early: Popular weekend dates (especially in summer) fill up months in advance. Aim to book at least 3-6 months out.
  • Provide a Change Room: The butler will arrive in normal clothes and need a private space (like a bathroom or bedroom) to change into his "uniform."
  • Tipping: While not mandatory, if your butler has done an exceptional job keeping the group entertained and the drinks flowing, a tip is always appreciated.
  • Photos: The butlers are happy to pose for photos! Just remember to be respectful. They are there to work, and while the atmosphere is fun and cheeky, they should be treated with the same respect as any other professional service provider.

Cities and Locations

Butlers with Bums has a massive network across the UK. You can find their services in:

The Cost of a Buff Butler

Pricing varies depending on the location and duration of the booking. Typically, you're looking at around £100-£150 for a two-hour session for one butler. If you have a larger group (more than 15-20 people), we highly recommend booking two butlers to ensure everyone's drinks stay full and the interaction is high.

Combining with Other Activities

Many hen party planners combine a Butlers with Bums session with other activities to create a full afternoon of entertainment. A popular itinerary might look like:

  • 2:00 PM: Butler arrives at your rental house. Serves welcome drinks.
  • 2:30 PM: Butler hosts hen party games and takes photos.
  • 3:30 PM: Afternoon Tea is served by the butler.
  • 4:30 PM: Butler changes and departs.
  • 5:00 PM: Group heads out for a Cocktail Making Class in the city centre.

This keeps the energy high and ensures the "home" part of the weekend is just as exciting as the "out" part.

Conclusion

Adding a buff butler from Butlers with Bums to your hen party is a guaranteed way to create memories and lots of laughter. Their combination of professional service and cheeky charm fits perfectly into the modern UK hen do. By planning ahead, choosing the right venue, and integrating him into your games, you'll ensure the bride-to-be has the time of her life.

For more information on how to book and to get an instant quote, visit the official Butlers with Bums website.

Frequently Asked Questions

What do Butlers with Bums actually wear?

The classic uniform consists of a collar, bowtie, cuffs, and a small apron. The back is open, which is the 'bum' part of the name! They are professional and charming hosts, not strippers.

How many butlers should I book for my hen party?

We recommend one butler for every 10-15 guests. If your group is larger than 20, booking two butlers ensures that everyone receives attentive service and has plenty of interaction.

Can the butlers host games?

Yes! Butlers with Bums are experts at hosting hen party games like Mr and Mrs, scavenger hunts, and more. They are great at breaking the ice and getting everyone involved.

Do I need to provide anything for the butler?

You should provide the drinks and ingredients if you want them to mix cocktails. You'll also need to provide a private space for them to change when they arrive and before they leave.

Where in the UK can I book Butlers with Bums?

They cover the entire UK, including major cities like London, Brighton, Manchester, Edinburgh, and many more. Their extensive network ensures availability in most locations.

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